𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗦𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘆. 𝗠𝘆 𝗢𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆. Part 13:Dear Fellow Sex Worker and the Sex Industry As I am writing this, 4 days ago on November 12, 2021, Britney Spear was free from her conservatorship. The world did not know for 13 years she was living a double life. Britney did things against her will. The only…

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗦𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘆. 𝗠𝘆 𝗢𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆. 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭 12: 𝐅𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐢 𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 What keeps a sex worker alive in the industry? A few weeks ago, I spoke to someone who shared that a side-effect of working in the industry is suicidal thoughts. Thoughts like: “𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘭. 𝘎𝘰𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘱𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘴𝘩 𝘮𝘦.”

T𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗦𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦 𝗲𝘅 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘆. 𝗠𝘆 𝗢𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆. 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭 11: 𝐅𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐅𝐨𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐈𝐧𝐝𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐲 While I was living in the massage studio in San Diego, I found ways to distract myself. Sometimes distraction came in editing for my YouTube channel, dating, dancing, or s ex work shenanigans. One day I got a call on my “work”…

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗦𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘆. 𝗠𝘆 𝗢𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆. Part 10: The identity of a Sex worker Have you ever played the Guess Who game? I played this game of faces as a little girl where one guesses which character one’s opponent picked. When one is in the sex industry, this game of faces or stereotypes is a popular…

T𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗦𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘆. 𝗠𝘆 𝗢𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆. Part 9: Approach to the Innermost Cave Is it possible to be filthy rich and poor at the same time? When working in my San Diego “massage office,” I decided to sleep in my car. In case you are clueless, there are certain CODE words in the sex industry. Some…

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗦𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘆. 𝗠𝘆 𝗢𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆. 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙩 8: 𝙈𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙈𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙮, 𝙈𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙗𝙡𝙚𝙢𝙨 𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘸? 𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘰𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳? “I’m stressed” is the number one reason I had many clients seeking happy endings. Stress is a symptom as a result of disguised sexual shame.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗦𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘆. 𝗠𝘆 𝗢𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆. 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙩 7: 𝙎𝙖𝙛𝙚𝙩𝙮 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙭𝙮: 𝙊𝙪𝙩𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙨, 𝘾𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 t𝙝𝙚 𝙂𝙤𝙡𝙙𝙙𝙞𝙜𝙜𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝙎𝙖𝙣 𝘿𝙞𝙚𝙜𝙤 What does a day look like in the shoes of a sex worker? Let’s make one thing very clear: sex workers and prostitutes are entirely different. A sex worker recognizes that sex work is work like any…

T𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗦𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘆. 𝗠𝘆 𝗢𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆. 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭 6: 𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐲 𝐄𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬, 𝐀𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐄𝐯𝐢𝐥 𝐕𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐬 𝚆𝚑𝚎𝚗 𝚠𝚎 𝚕𝚒𝚟𝚎 𝚒𝚗 𝚊 𝚙𝚕𝚊𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚑𝚊𝚕𝚏-𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚝𝚑𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚑𝚊𝚕𝚏-𝚕𝚒𝚎𝚜, 𝚠𝚎 𝚗𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛 𝚐𝚎𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚑𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚢 𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚠𝚎 𝚠𝚊𝚗𝚝. 𝙰𝚜 𝚜𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝚠𝚑𝚘 𝚑𝚊𝚜 𝚋𝚎𝚎𝚗 𝚒𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚋𝚞𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚑𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚢 𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜, 𝙸 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚢 𝚍𝚘𝚗’𝚝 𝚊𝚕𝚠𝚊𝚢𝚜 𝚎𝚗𝚍 𝚞𝚙 𝚋𝚎𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚑𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚢.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗦𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘆. 𝗠𝘆 𝗢𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆 Part 5:A Sex Workers Childhood: A Common and Untold Story What does healing mean? The Etymology of this word means whole. Etymology is the study of the origin of words. When we don’t express who we are, the truths we…